Nerdy Creator Blog | Love Yourself as an Introvert

How to Find Peace in Your Past Trauma as an INFJ?

by Nerdy Creator | Sep 10, 2018 | Being a Highly Sensitive Introvert, Finding Inner Peace, INFJ

Most if not all of us have experienced some kind of trauma in our life, but not everyone will see it as a trauma. Trauma is defined as a deeply distressing or disturbing experience. But it’s not limited to acutely painful and life-threatening experiences such as...

How Can Mindfulness Help You Love Yourself More?

by Nerdy Creator | Aug 26, 2018 | Loving Yourself

There was once my friend asked me what I’m writing about and I said: Self-compassion. She then wondered, “Is there such a thing known as self-compassion?” Self-compassion and self-love are concepts that might seem weird or silly to some people...

How to Grow when You Are an Enneagram Type 4

by Nerdy Creator | Aug 12, 2018 | Being a Highly Sensitive Introvert, INFJ

The biggest area of growth for an Enneagram Type 4 is probably our ever-changing feelings. We Fours tend to pay too much attention to how we feel. Even though understanding our emotions can help us understand why we act and behave a certain way, we have to be careful...

[New Book] Parent Yourself Again: Love Yourself the Way You Have Always Wanted to Be Loved

by Nerdy Creator | Jul 29, 2018 | New Book

Are you constantly seeking approval from someone else? Are you still craving for someone to love you? Or do you feel disappointed when others don’t love you the way you wanted? If so, perhaps you might want to revisit your childhood. Most of us didn’t get...

What Is It Like to Be an Enneagram Type 4 from an INFJ Perspective?

by Nerdy Creator | Jul 7, 2018 | Being a Highly Sensitive Introvert, INFJ

Last December, my INFJ friend introduced me to this personality type tool called the Enneagram. I did the test twice and on the second time, I was typed a 9w1 (the peacemaker). For the whole of January, I read all the Enneagram books I could find in the libraries, go...

How to Deal with Your Emotions in a Healthy Way as an INFJ

by Nerdy Creator | Jun 10, 2018 | Being a Highly Sensitive Introvert, INFJ

INFJs have a love-hate relationship with emotions. Emotions fuel our creative pursuits. They make our lives more interesting and colorful. But yet as an empath, we absorb other people’s emotions and get emotionally drained easily. It’s difficult for us to...

How to Stay Present and Live in the Moment

by Nerdy Creator | May 27, 2018 | Finding Inner Peace, Loving Yourself

Do you find it difficult to stay in the present? Does your mind keep wandering? Thinking about what to do in the future? Or reminisce about the past? I’m a planner and a dreamer. As a child, I love to daydream and imagine stuff. As an adult, I love to think...