INFJ: Understand Yourself and Embrace Your Path

Dear INFJs, welcome!

I have created this page for you. Below you will find a brief overview and portrait of the INFJ, blog posts that I have written over the years, and books and resources for INFJs.

If you like this page, please bookmark it for easy reference and share it with other INFJs.

Enjoy!

Yong Kang (aka Nerdy Creator)

What Is INFJ?

INFJ is one of the 16 personalities found in MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator). It is said to be the rarest MBTI type, about 1-2 percent of the population.

The acronym, INFJ, stands for Introversion (I), Intuition (N), Feeling (F), and Judging (J). Each letter represents how an individual prefers to use their mind to perceive and organize information.

So what this means for an INFJ personality type is we prefer to:

  • Introversion (I): Pay attention to our inner world.
  • Intuition (N): See patterns, possibilities, and the big picture.
  • Feeling (F): Use feelings and values in decision-making.
  • Judging (J): Have a structured life and closure.

But this doesn’t mean that we can’t do the opposite. It’s just not our preferred or habitual way of using our minds.

To understand INFJ in-depth, you will have to learn about the INFJ cognitive function stack.

INFJ Characteristics and Personality Traits

Commonly known as The Advocate or The Counselor, INFJs want to use their intuitive and empathetic gifts to help other people or the world. We have compassion for others but at the same time, we are often reserved due to our introverted nature.

Furthermore, we often feel drained from our interactions with others and need time alone to recharge. So sometimes, we might appear aloof, private, or even mysterious.

Even though we are intuitive, we might not share what we know with others.

Gentle, quiet, soft-spoken, and often misunderstood, we only open up if we feel safe to share or we feel that the other person will get what we are saying.

Like all personality types, we have our strengths and weaknesses. Below are a few of our strengths and weaknesses.

INFJ Strengths

  • Insightful and deep.
  • Creative and imaginative.
  • Empathetic and easily understand other people’s point of view.
  • Ability to understand complex concepts.
  • Always learning and improving ourselves.

INFJ Weaknesses

Not Sure If You Are an INFJ?

Sometimes, people may confuse INFJs with other MBTI types like INFP and INTP. If you are unsure whether you are an INFJ, read my “Am I an INFJ?” series. In this series, I compare the INFJ personality type with 7 other commonly mistaken MBTI types to help you understand the differences.

Understanding Your INFJ Personality

Delve deeper into the INFJ personality. Explore the intricacies of introversion, intuition, feeling, and judging, and how they shape your experiences with these beginner’s articles.

Dear INFJs, Here Are 7 Reasons Why You Are Misunderstood.

Discover 7 key reasons why INFJs often feel misunderstood, and gain insights into your unique personality traits and perspectives.

Read more: INFJ feeling misunderstood >>

What Was It Like Growing Up as an INFJ?

Explore the unique experiences and challenges of growing up as an INFJ, and learn how they shape your perspectives and interactions. In this blog post, I share my personal journey as an INFJ.

Read more: INFJ as a child >>

Empowering Your INFJ Journey

Explore comprehensive INFJ articles categorized by relationship, career, growth, and emotions to better understand and navigate your life as an INFJ.

Growth

NFJs often face challenges like burnout and self-doubt. Learn practical strategies for personal development and self-care to thrive on your journey.

Careers

INFJs are driven by purpose. Discover career paths aligned with your strengths and values. Learn tips for finding fulfillment in your work environment.

Emotions

INFJs are deeply empathetic souls. Explore the power of your emotions, navigate emotional sensitivity, and discover tools for emotional well-being.

Relationships

As an INFJ, navigating relationships can be complex. Discover tips for building healthy connections, setting boundaries, and fostering empathy with loved ones.

Recommended Books

Discover a curated list of 10 books perfect for INFJs, featuring a mix of fiction and non-fiction across genres like spirituality, psychology, and relationships.

YouTube Channel

After much consideration, I decided to create a secondary channel for INFJs. This channel focuses on what’s like being an INFJ and concepts about personality types.

Free eBook

If you want to find out more about how to love yourself as an INFJ, be sure to download my free eBook called Self-Acceptance for INFJs.